Intimacy and Teaching (L7)

This week was a little bit embarrassing to talk about, so I'm going to make it brief. Intimacy is a very important thing for a couple. It is not something that we should treat lightly or put on the back burner. It's important for a couple to enjoy each other and do everything they can to help one another feel comfortable and happy. We talked about how to talk to your kids about sex. There was a list of Don't's I wanted to talk about: 1. Don't shut down. Just because your child is asking questions, doesn't mean you should be afraid. Be prepared and be confident. 2. Don't wait until someone else does (like at school). It's best if you know what information is given and how it is presented. Be part of your child's learning experience. 3. Don't only focus on the physical nature. This is a very spiritual and sacred thing; help your child understand that. 4. Don't rely on messages from the media. They are not going to teach your child what he/she needs to know. 5. Don't leave it up to one parent. BOTH parents should be involved where possible and this should be discussed between the two of you before you hold a conversation with your child. 6. Don't be embarrassed. Be confident and help your child see what a great blessing this is. 7. Don't lie. It seems simple and obvious, but it's important. Be honest with your child. 8. Don't be only reactive, be proactive. Respond when your child needs you to, but do your best to be proactive in age-appropriate conversation. This should start as young as 3. Again, AGE APPROPRIATE.